Like the two sides of a coin, one without the other just won't make any sense. And if the coin ever has a third side, it will never be 'Emotions' or 'Sentiments' because they both have zero IQ.” “Happiness and sadness are the two sides of the coin of our life.
As the saying goes two negatives don't make a positive, but two positive or one positive and other being negative (having a chance of being positive in future) makes perfect two sides of a coin. The combination of fear and ignorance ( two sides of the same coin) can be paralysing.
Similarly both Men and Women as gender are two sides of the coin, they have same feelings but they react differently to a situation. Mars and Venus sounds very exotic for personality traits and we love a good story. But in reality we are all same, we choose to react the way we feel at present moment. Our conditioning and upbringing makes us who we are. If we remove the society norms and bring both genders up with no biased or pre disposed conditions, one will see them both behaving same to any situation. Equal opportunity changes the way we think and react.
There is also a saying opposite attract when it comes to relationship. We have also abused and used the term "Good cop - bad cop" in our work environment / family or friendship .
And with pride we gloat .... "That's what makes them so perfect, they are two different sides of the same coin".
What surprises me is that we talk about change all the time, yet we go in circles when it comes to our pre defined perceptions and way of life.
The list goes on: Peace and justice, Madness and Genius, Creativity and Freedom, Good and Bad, Shadow and light, Love and Hate...... they all have a common denominator - Us and our thinking and reaction to situation.
No matter what your situation, one needs to understand that your current circumstance is simply one side of the two sided coin.
We have all heard oppurtunity knocks slowly or once. Then we also came up with a wise one - if one door closes other opens. The glass is half full or empty. We created a profession Psychology / Psychiatry for making an outsider understand this dilemma which we all face. Did someone not use common sense to understand that door has a handle and if it closes one can open it again, or the glass can always be filled. Yes we have been using paradigm to motivate people, but then don't feed them but teach them to be motivated always.
Humans are selfish by nature, we choose to help those who will in future be of use to us. We choose always for our betterment. These days on social media to be cool one can voice any opinion but the truth is far more complicated than what one chooses to show as.
Which side of coin is our ever hungry selfishness? Question which always arises is " Two sides of the same coin but which is which ?"
One can be anything and anyone , one chooses to be. Our masks cannot hide our true self (this is debatable ) , as we never know what is our true self. We all want to be successful without realising success comes to those who have seen failure.
Success and failure are two sides of the coin. So my dear friends "Flip the coin and enjoy the game."
As the saying goes two negatives don't make a positive, but two positive or one positive and other being negative (having a chance of being positive in future) makes perfect two sides of a coin. The combination of fear and ignorance ( two sides of the same coin) can be paralysing.
Similarly both Men and Women as gender are two sides of the coin, they have same feelings but they react differently to a situation. Mars and Venus sounds very exotic for personality traits and we love a good story. But in reality we are all same, we choose to react the way we feel at present moment. Our conditioning and upbringing makes us who we are. If we remove the society norms and bring both genders up with no biased or pre disposed conditions, one will see them both behaving same to any situation. Equal opportunity changes the way we think and react.
There is also a saying opposite attract when it comes to relationship. We have also abused and used the term "Good cop - bad cop" in our work environment / family or friendship .
And with pride we gloat .... "That's what makes them so perfect, they are two different sides of the same coin".
What surprises me is that we talk about change all the time, yet we go in circles when it comes to our pre defined perceptions and way of life.
The list goes on: Peace and justice, Madness and Genius, Creativity and Freedom, Good and Bad, Shadow and light, Love and Hate...... they all have a common denominator - Us and our thinking and reaction to situation.
No matter what your situation, one needs to understand that your current circumstance is simply one side of the two sided coin.
We have all heard oppurtunity knocks slowly or once. Then we also came up with a wise one - if one door closes other opens. The glass is half full or empty. We created a profession Psychology / Psychiatry for making an outsider understand this dilemma which we all face. Did someone not use common sense to understand that door has a handle and if it closes one can open it again, or the glass can always be filled. Yes we have been using paradigm to motivate people, but then don't feed them but teach them to be motivated always.
Humans are selfish by nature, we choose to help those who will in future be of use to us. We choose always for our betterment. These days on social media to be cool one can voice any opinion but the truth is far more complicated than what one chooses to show as.
Which side of coin is our ever hungry selfishness? Question which always arises is " Two sides of the same coin but which is which ?"
One can be anything and anyone , one chooses to be. Our masks cannot hide our true self (this is debatable ) , as we never know what is our true self. We all want to be successful without realising success comes to those who have seen failure.
Success and failure are two sides of the coin. So my dear friends "Flip the coin and enjoy the game."
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