Friday, 16 October 2015

Talent isn't much without Passion _ You are as good as your last event

"I have no special talent. I am just passionately curious." Albert Einstein

What drives us? i mean literally.. what is the driving force behind us achieving the heights in our career, or in our personal life? Education and talent is something which gives us the base for us to strive forward but there is something else which makes us extra ordinary people at what we do.
What is this force?
This elusive question can have many different possible answers. Some say paying someone a high salary and high incentives gets the job done. While others differ and say paying a good salary is always good but incentives need not always be related to money.
From my diaries of an event manager, i was passionately curious to create events. There are many stories and for me to pick up one will be difficult. I never slept more than 3 to 4 hours during my tenure as an event manager. The excitement to get back to work and create events which will be remembered was always taking precedence over my sleep. We did create concepts which even after a decade are annual events for many companies and the high to do something different was always my addiction. Yes when i speak of addiction as one of the pillars of stress, i was addicted to my job and events.
I honestly don't remember getting bored as long i was creating something new. After 2 decades i guess all events started looking the same, all concepts looked a tweak of something done many moons back and all of a sudden my passion turned into regular job. The day i felt i was going to work i was bored and with the boredom came my decision that it was time to move on. Its strange that the moment my passion for doing events left me however talented i was told i was in my job, i was not interested anymore. No amount of money or big job title can excite me to go back and do events today.
So i wonder if it was not money or incentives what made me work so hard and deliver rocking events day after day for 2 decades. What was it? I often told my team before any event, it was my mantra and motivation talk one can say " You are as good as your last event". And they believed in it and delivered some of the best events done in this country.
Looking back i have learned few things which i am sharing with you
Passion is the driving force for a creative mind. No amount of money can trigger amazing work without passion. Present generation looks for money and can jump jobs just to get the extra money hike which in my time was usually experience getting paid. The market dynamics have changed and i see less passion and less talent with more cribbing. "My time" was limited and the deadlines of the project were the driving force. I had never heard my team cribbing of not getting enough time off.
Respect was another driving force. The clients used to respect the agencies and would share all details to ensure that the agency would come up with the concept keeping in mind the vision and what the companies envisaged from the event.
Relaxed work environment in an event company is a must. Many companies are now coming up with open offices. This was something which was done more than a decade ago. I still remember my team used to come to office at 9 am and first 15 minutes was loud Shiny disco balls and similar music playing and everyone dancing and freaking out. Come 9:15 am everyone used to be at desk and our regular day at work used to start. We had a dart board in my cabin where my team could sit discuss the events and also relax themselves out by playing the game. In the long corridor we invented Mallu bowling. Yes you heard it correct, a coconut tossed at plastic pins just to have fun and try to train our focus. Cricket on friday afternoon, maybe at times a movie played on projector if the team wanted to relax. Mind gets tired, and one cannot think creative concepts always. So we had means to relax ourselves and work into the night to meet our deadlines.
Team work : It was never the individual but the whole team which delivers. I still remember in 2002, one of our clients called out my name to come on stage after the show as a thank you for doing an amazing event. I stood in my console , called out each and every team member of mine to go up on stage and take a bow. Its always team first. This was one habit which continued of mine till my last show.
Show must go on : This is our saying in entertainment industry. What ever happens the show must go on. Therefore the team becomes an extension of one's family. If one person has some problem, the team takes over and helps the individual overcome the problem. And the Show happens without any excuses or delays.
Did i give any monetary incentives to my team to deliver rocking shows every time. the answer is NO. The team was driven by passion and one vision and focus to be the best and deliver the best. As the saying goes " You are as good as your last event"

Thursday, 15 October 2015

Namah Astu Te .... I bow to you

Namaste ( Nah - mas - tay)

My soul honours your soul. I honour the place in you where the entire universe resides. I honour the light, love, truth, beauty and peace within you. Because it is also within me. In sharing these things we are united, we are the same, we are one.

A simple greeting which has such a deep and profound meaning. This is the hindu way of greeting anyone. ( be it family, friends, colleagues, enemies or strangers)

What i learn from Namaste

We are all equal : When i bow down with folded hands and greet the one in front of me, i am bowing to the divine soul in front of me. There is no cast, race, religion, language but a boundary less world in which we are connected to each other through the energy which resides in us. Our souls are connected on a higher level and we need to understand that we all are equal on spiritual plane.
Unfortunately we have created walls of race, religion, language, culture to define ourselves.  This makes me realise that while we have become more technologically advanced species we have also created more walls for us to be safe in our own little world. How lonely we all must feel in these walls.

Respect for each other : With folded hands greeting the one in front on me i am showing respect and love for the person. I am not better than the one in front of me. Everyone has a purpose and meaning to be alive in this world. I bow down to you and respect you for who you are.
This makes me realise that as we advance our knowledge we would have developed more compassion and respect for everyone and for the planet. But when i look around i see technologically advance species which have "D -evolved' if there was such a word from compassion and love to indifference and violence. We have no respect for anyone other than to meet our greedy devious means to survive.

Peace and harmony : There is peace around and within me. I bow down to the peace and harmony which we all bring together as we greet each other.
Strangely the world we live in now its a long shot for all of us to live together in peace and harmony till the time we don't make love and compassion our way of life.

Let go of EGO : In this simple greeting we bring our ego down and bow to the divine soul in front of us. This divine soul is none other than another human being. Letting go of our EGO is one of the most difficult emotion which we find to let go.

Simplicity : I bow to the simplicity which you have inside you. We are mirrors to each other and this simplicity binds us in being human.

A simple greeting with such deep meaning, i am amazed at the culture and knowledge which ancients had. Maybe someday the true meaning of Namaste will dawn upon us and probably one day we will go back to our roots to create peace and harmony.

Namah Astu Te .... I bow to you






Thursday, 8 October 2015

Happiness is..... You make me Smile

" Happiness is not something ready made. It come's from your own actions" beautifully said by His Holiness Dalai Lama.

My happy moments are scattered through my life. Its a tussle to segregate happy and sad moments. Somehow one always finds the other. Its strange one moment i am filled with laughter and the second i can feel tears running down my face. I am strange or we human's i should say have a strange affinity to sadness. Even in our happiest moments we find tears streaming down. I can never understand the science behind this. In our happiest and fits of laughter moments, we somehow cry. If one cries being extra happy then why do we feel awful and down in our moments of sadness? Why do we think our happiness is short lived?
Some how sadness always finds us without any purpose. Being happy is something which we all want and yet the feeling eludes many. Happiness is a state of mind, and i am sure not many of us understand what makes us happy. What gets the euphoria inside us, tears of joy and a smile which can light up the whole universe.
My happy quotients are many. At work i used to feel euphoric the moment i would be in office. To create an event is somehow an awesome feeling for me. My work always made me happy. Its not that i did not have stressful moments, they were plenty. Deadlines, late night work, no holidays, last minute changes, best plans going no where but still it was fun. So my happy quotient at work was FUN. My work was not regular day 9 to 5 job and every day in the morning my passion to create something unique and new made me feel ALIVE and that feeling made me have fun at work. As i look back i was happy doing the work i did for many years. Tears of joy found me many times at work but never once did i feel sad.
My baby, my black labrador - Simba is my one and only child. I am a paw mom. The day i got him home, he filled up my life with Unconditional love. To come home to a 38 kg big lab who is always jumping and cuddling to you is a treat after a hard days work. Somehow i never wanted to change his personality and therefore Simba is a spoilt baby of mine who i have never shouted at or ever hit to train him. He somehow is highly intelligent and can understand what i am talking to him. The only way he lets me be at home at peace is when i get back my first half hour is spend playing with him, no phone calls, no talking to any one else, nothing but my whole attention just to him. So we have an unconventional child who gives and takes unconditional love.
My teacher had told me many years ago to find happiness 'go within'. Its strange but the fact remains we can only be happy if we are at peace with who we are. It has taken me many years of "Journey within" to find myself. Each day has thousands of moments and each moment has a different feeling. The beauty of my moments is that in a day - 24 hours i can feel different emotions and somehow there has been peace even in the toughest of times i have faced.
I expect people to love and appreciate me just like i love and appreciate them. Expectations are a human condition and if i am born human i'am definitely having these traits. Therefore when people say don't expect anything from anyone to not to be disappointed. I am confused with this statement. We all expect from each other. This is how we all are brain wired, therefore i expect people to deliver as per their promise to me and i don't get disappointed but angry if a promise is not kept. So my happy quotient is not affected if some expectation is not met. Anger is another emotion which is emoted than having repressed emotion of sadness. Somehow communication i feel is a much better tool than assumption for my happy quotient to stay intact.
We all have different trigger points for our emotions. Each person has a different state of mind and each one deals with emotions in their own way. As a famous song lyrics ring in my ear " Don't worry, be Happy". We all find it in doses.
If i sum up what is happiness is to me.... all i can say is "You make me Smile"