Draft folder

 Sometimes we put our soul in a draft folder to be reviewed at a later stage.

Ever wondered where does our fearless spirit go before it adjusts to this world of compromise ? We are all born to be free and fearless without boundaries and by the time one reaches 8 years our DNA is already mapped and genes are harnessed to ensure we doubt our very own existence.

Welcome to the word!! of unlimited possibilities and restrictions. We are groomed to be clogs in the system. No one knows when this started but the end result is always the same.

People fear someone who has nothing to lose. The choices we make, makes us and we have no control how we would react genetically as our core is defined but yet some find a way to break from this non existence and live life.

The suppression of human mind has been going on for centuries and nothing will stop this. But the resilient human spirit always finds a way to rise.

I believe one cannot know about love if one has not faced heartache, one cannot know about trust till betrayal has not been prevalent, one does not know how to dance till the time soul is not free. We make our own destiny by our choices. We have nothing to fear other than ourselves yet we choose to stay under this cloud of fear which hampers our growth.

We choose the right words to be heard, we choose to power dress for an important meeting, we choose to let go of ourselves when we taste a little power without understanding that we just mirror our innate desires which were a part of our grooming lessons. 

Patience is the virtue of the wise. Is this true? or just a thought put across in our mind to ensure we control our inner power. I have always believed that each one of us is a miracle and part of the cosmic energy which the religious fanatics call God. We hold the power to make things happen in our life and yet we choose to leave it for an unseen power to judge our belief and fearlessness.

What if tomorrow you wake up and you find yourself devoid of any fear. Emotions play a huge role for us to be fearful . And the best part is it all manmade. The only emotion which actually exists is unconditional love without any expectation. How many have experienced this? Its an aphrodisiac which few have managed to get in their lives and they don't talk about it.

When someone does harm to you, what do you wish? Revenge or wish the best for that person. This one question will answer how to conquer your inner demons. We all have our fears and the trick is to become friends with them. No one sells their soul to devil by making a trade of wishing for something and giving something. It's an age old tradition in white magic to pay the price if you create a miracle. But it's forbidden as human being succumbed to their desires and forgot about being a miracle.

We follow traditions as sheep with out even understanding the origin of them. We are the sheep and no amount of talks will change this one aspect of ours. We are conditioned to be obedient. The question is do we want to be conditioned? Do we want to be fearful? and the most important question is when did we stop believing in ourselves?

Life is not a test, neither is it complicated. Life is beautiful and what you think you create that. Love conquers all and a heart filled with love flows the soul to dance with energy as no one has ever seen. Be the energy to make your soul dance.

I know this year has been tough of all of us. Financially, emotionally and physically but then this also allows our soul to be awaken and be one with the energy. We have been chasing a dream of i don't know what. All of a sudden everything has come to an halt and while economically we are trying to reinvent ourself but i feel emotionally we need to be strong to over come our fears and truly live the life we were destined for.

We may be born in different societies or income's but in truth we all have same amount time and resources to make it happen for us. Some might say that the privileged have it on platter for them, i do agree as they don't know half the struggles which rest of the world goes through. Yes they have no clue of what is it to fend for every day, what does it mean to travel miles just to go to school, or sleep without food or what poverty means. But the whole point is we don't choose our parents but we certainly are the captain of our life and we can choose to make our life better by finding the opportunities and working towards the future we envisage.

I have always believed that there is 'No free lunch" everyone has to pay to make things happens. Hard work had never hurt anyone. Discipline makes us who we are and persistence and resilience to make our dream come true gives us an opportunity to make our future . The question is are you willing to walk that mile without any expectations to ensure that the end result is as per your desires?

Life can be many things as we judge it harshly but in the end its all about how we react and choose.

Love unconditionally and live the life you are meant to. No one knows the future other than the choices you make.

Let Go to see What happens

 "Sometimes you have to just Let GO to see What Happens"

Often we say this to ourselves and other's to Let Go! What does this mean to us? It"s a question i have asked myself and yet the answer is not there for me. I have heard truth sets us free, don't overthink just let it go, accept what is, let go what was etc etc... all motivational quotes. But seriously what is it we Let Go?

Few days back i had a funny conversation with my Chiropractor. While holding my neck to remove the crick he said Let Go as my body was somehow in antipicitaion was putting up resistance. This has been the case always and i could not stop laughing. I told him, Doc if you ask me to relax you might get the correct response from me. It's all about our conditioning and words we sub consciously respond to. He thought it was funny that i was making a suggestion to a professional to use some other word.

But in truth i was helping him to understand my mindset. With relax i have a trigger mechanism to trust and see what happens but with Let Go i am tensed as i am not sure what to let go.

Communication... the mother of all evil. I have trained teams to be the best in their fields in marketing and with more than two decades of being in marketing i personally have not used these words to myself or my colleagues. If we lost a pitch, i did not say Let Go, but i asked them to go within and figure out the weaknesses which existed in the plan proposed and strengthen the weaknesses for next time.

The new mindfulness Guru's / speakers / life coach ... the list goes on all use this word and i would love to know what's it ; that needs to be Let Go. 

When i teach meditation , i ask the person to feel as one with the energy. Our past defines our choices of present and future. It's the patterns which ones needs to observe and then slowly harness the energy to plug in the holes. Our healing only starts once we face our fears and our weaknesses which makes us who we are. Most of us are not even aware of the strength which we possess within ourselves. 

There is a forgiveness and death meditation which i teach. Both are important for us as individuals to evolve and to me Let Go is all the pain and hurt which we feel in our life. It's go nothing to do with not living our life the way we want. How we transform our mindset and look at the brighter side of how we as a small speck of energy in this wide universe matter is one of the most beautiful feelings one can have.

Why do we need to condition people to forgive and forget. If one goes through a transformation then the first step is to understand why we keep repeating the same mistakes again and again. We are humans born to make mistakes. Not be a robot to the society. 

This year has been super unique. With the pandemic having it's fun and we mere mortals going in lockdown so that we can save ourselves and others, many have developed e-personalities. Being constantly connected on net removes the human contact and we as a species need that the most. How are we mentally with this physical distance which is required for us a species to survive? Can we Let Go of who we are? It seems more to me like a police state world wide for us to be something we are not.

For me personally i need my creative thinking and travelling which is my passion which energises my soul. To be in my my own pod and not be "Selfish" for my wants and needs is not how i envisage my life. A lie well told is what my mind tells me and i am not willing to Let Go of my life.

I have heard this one sentence so many times that i don't know whether to laugh or feel pity for all the people in this world. Repeatedly i hear people say "We live only once". Well spoiler alert, "We live everyday, we die only once".

So my question is " Do you want to live on morsels fed to you or you want to fetch your own food? 

I am not a strong believer of feeding any human, to me teach the human how to fish so that the person can fend for themselves rather than giving them alms or feeding then to be under your control . 

Look around and thats what is actually happening. High paid corporate jobs, with all perks... yeah we are the kings and rule the world. Do you actually rule it or are you a mere clog in the wheel to make it move? Do you have free will to leave it in an instance... no wait you have to to invest and save for your plan to retire. Right Let Go as so many people say but no way can you Let Go.

So i come back to my question What does Let Go mean?

We all believe we are power houses and in control of our life. But in fact we live with this delusion our entire life. If i have to Let Go, then i have to let go of this motion that i am important, i have to understand that life is unpredictable and no amount of discipline in my life will change this fact. But the only thing which will make my dreams come true is my resilience to any outside forces and my belief and conviction of who i want to be. We become what we believe in. Positive attitude makes us humble and we accept our mistakes while arrogant and egoistic behaviour will always blame someone.

So is Let Go meaning give up old beliefs, practices and live the life you want to? Don't bother about what society has to say. If you are an outcast because of your individuality and beliefs so be it. As being a human is feeing every moment which this life offers and if your dreams and goals don't match which the what the so called society wants, do you care? Eventually i know the universe bends and love the stubborn heart. Be yourself, don't let anyone define you.

Well all i can say is that I've reached a stage where my brains goes from " You probably shouldn't say that." to "What the hell, let's see What Happens".

Have a lovely week folks and do think what does LET GO mean to you.