Love has no culture, boundaries, race, gender and religion. It is said, love is never planned it Happens!
In a world where we are all struggling to be ahead and sadly most are complete control freaks, how can an emotion like love be left uncontrolled? We have created boundaries of land, religion, race, money, education... the list goes on and very sadly we have also ventured into creating boundaries for love. An emotion so pure, yet the human mind cannot fathom the chance of letting love grow. We have this narrow minded vision of world and intend to stay in this tunnel of darkness with our idea of a glorious perfect world. In a world where a society decides the parameters of love.
Falling in love is magical, it brings the best in us out. The whole world looks beautiful and time has no place when one is in love. I love myself equally as i love any one in my life. If i am incapable of loving myself, then how can i love any one else? Same way i love everything in this world, Unconditionally. Yes unconditional love which expects nothing in return other than a feeling of love which resounds in the universe. All religion talk about love. To me it is universal consciousness which one can feel. This feeling of connecting with this consciousness is Love.
So what is love in our world? An emotion which makes me happy? or a universal bond which we all share yet choose to disengage ourselves for our selfish needs and desires? Pleasure is what we can experience outside and love is what makes us alive inside. We are a by product of what people believe and therefore we all feel love is nothing more than a process which needs to be followed as per the norms of society.
The age old rue with love being sacrifice is very alien to me. Why would i sacrifice my love for what? If two people love each other, want to spend rest of their lives together, why would any society put boundaries on their love? This is one question which i am incapable of understanding.
I have seen people behaving oddly if there is a cross race / religion love. Friends forget family are betting on how long will the love or marriage last. Pathetic is all i can say, betting on how long will their love last? What our mind cannot understand, instills fear inside us. The result of this fear is that we feel we are loosing control and once that thought passes our mind, well you see traditions, rituals what ever the week mind can conjure up is thrown as rules of society.
For many years transgender love was taken as taboo and still is an offence in many countries. How can people of same sex love each other, this is not what we need in our society. Really? Who decides this? Probably people who have compartmentalised their feelings and purpose in life. How can i call a person "Queer" if that person loves same sex person? Why will that person be called any names other than respecting the individuals choice of love. And why should anyone be at mercy of society to legalise their love? Why is the question.
I agree sick and queer are many people in this world who believe in having sex with children, or a father forcing himself on his daughter, or sex slaves (prostitution) which has crossed enormous proportions in this perfect world of ours. Rape is on all time high, honour killings in certain sects of society are also prevalent.
But why would this society try to curb two people of same sex wanting to spend their life together as Taboo? It scares the living day lights out of many to accept these relationships, therefore as moral police of society, they call upon traditions, religion and society to make laws of who one can be with.
I am surprised that human beings have in their endeavour to rule the world, are also ruling the only emotion which binds us.
I am glad that few mature countries have come forward after years of debate to legalise same gender marriages. The world is changing and hopefully the hate and fear will reside in other parts of the world for people to have a right to choose their love and life partner.
Love sets us free, love is love with no name, no gender, no boundaries.
In a world where we are all struggling to be ahead and sadly most are complete control freaks, how can an emotion like love be left uncontrolled? We have created boundaries of land, religion, race, money, education... the list goes on and very sadly we have also ventured into creating boundaries for love. An emotion so pure, yet the human mind cannot fathom the chance of letting love grow. We have this narrow minded vision of world and intend to stay in this tunnel of darkness with our idea of a glorious perfect world. In a world where a society decides the parameters of love.
Falling in love is magical, it brings the best in us out. The whole world looks beautiful and time has no place when one is in love. I love myself equally as i love any one in my life. If i am incapable of loving myself, then how can i love any one else? Same way i love everything in this world, Unconditionally. Yes unconditional love which expects nothing in return other than a feeling of love which resounds in the universe. All religion talk about love. To me it is universal consciousness which one can feel. This feeling of connecting with this consciousness is Love.
So what is love in our world? An emotion which makes me happy? or a universal bond which we all share yet choose to disengage ourselves for our selfish needs and desires? Pleasure is what we can experience outside and love is what makes us alive inside. We are a by product of what people believe and therefore we all feel love is nothing more than a process which needs to be followed as per the norms of society.
The age old rue with love being sacrifice is very alien to me. Why would i sacrifice my love for what? If two people love each other, want to spend rest of their lives together, why would any society put boundaries on their love? This is one question which i am incapable of understanding.
I have seen people behaving oddly if there is a cross race / religion love. Friends forget family are betting on how long will the love or marriage last. Pathetic is all i can say, betting on how long will their love last? What our mind cannot understand, instills fear inside us. The result of this fear is that we feel we are loosing control and once that thought passes our mind, well you see traditions, rituals what ever the week mind can conjure up is thrown as rules of society.
For many years transgender love was taken as taboo and still is an offence in many countries. How can people of same sex love each other, this is not what we need in our society. Really? Who decides this? Probably people who have compartmentalised their feelings and purpose in life. How can i call a person "Queer" if that person loves same sex person? Why will that person be called any names other than respecting the individuals choice of love. And why should anyone be at mercy of society to legalise their love? Why is the question.
I agree sick and queer are many people in this world who believe in having sex with children, or a father forcing himself on his daughter, or sex slaves (prostitution) which has crossed enormous proportions in this perfect world of ours. Rape is on all time high, honour killings in certain sects of society are also prevalent.
But why would this society try to curb two people of same sex wanting to spend their life together as Taboo? It scares the living day lights out of many to accept these relationships, therefore as moral police of society, they call upon traditions, religion and society to make laws of who one can be with.
I am surprised that human beings have in their endeavour to rule the world, are also ruling the only emotion which binds us.
I am glad that few mature countries have come forward after years of debate to legalise same gender marriages. The world is changing and hopefully the hate and fear will reside in other parts of the world for people to have a right to choose their love and life partner.
Love sets us free, love is love with no name, no gender, no boundaries.
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